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            <title type="html"><![CDATA[Securing a mediation waiver for North Carolina custody disputes]]></title>
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            <id>https://www.kennedyfamilylaw.com/?p=51556</id>
            <updated>2026-05-02T13:00:11Z</updated>
            <published>2026-05-02T13:00:11Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[Resolving custody disagreements can be a challenge for parents in North Carolina. They may both have the same priorities, which typically include maximizing the amount of time with the children. As such, it may be difficult to reach an amicable agreement regarding the overall allocation of parenting time. Parents who likely need to share custody frequently attend mediation to resolve…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.kennedyfamilylaw.com/blog/2026/05/securing-a-mediation-waiver-for-north-carolina-custody-disputes/"><![CDATA[Resolving custody disagreements can be a challenge for parents in North Carolina. They may both have the same priorities, which typically include maximizing the amount of time with the children. As such, it may be difficult to reach an amicable agreement regarding the overall allocation of parenting time.

Parents who likely need to share custody frequently attend mediation to resolve disagreements about their custody arrangements. In some cases, mediation <a href="https://www.ncleg.net/enactedlegislation/statutes/html/bysection/chapter_50/gs_50-13.1.html" data-wpel-link="external" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">may be legally mandatory</a> before the parents can proceed with custody litigation.

While mediation is effective for many families facing custody disputes, it may not be appropriate for every situation. Parents can sometimes request mediation waivers while trying to resolve a custody dispute.
<h2>When custody mediation may not be appropriate</h2>
The goal of custody mediation is to limit conflict between parents and the secondhand harm their disputes can cause their children. Mediation can help parents work together and arrive at uncontested terms for sharing custody.

There are certain scenarios in which mediation may be not just ineffective but also potentially harmful. If there is a history of domestic violence or emotional abuse between the spouses, mediation may not be productive.

Additionally, when there are concerns about child abuse or neglect, it may not be possible for parents to adequately address these issues in a mediation session. The courts may also approve a mediation waiver in cases where urgent emergency relief is necessary for the protection of the children. Finally, waivers can help parents bypass mediation when there are major logistical hurdles, such as military service, living 50 miles or more apart or traveling for work, preventing them from attending mediation.

Those with documentation of challenging family circumstances can potentially request a mediation waiver when addressing a custody dispute. They can bypass the mandatory mediation process and proceed with litigation instead.

Filing a Motion and Order to Waive Custody Mediation with the Clerk of Superior Court is the first step. The petitioning parent must explain why mediation isn't appropriate for the family. A judge reviews the petition and any supporting evidence, such as police reports and other documentation, to determine if there is good cause for the waiver request. The courts can provide alternatives after granting a waiver, such as scheduling an expedited hearing or scheduling the case with a focus on safety.

Those facing <a href="https://www.kennedyfamilylaw.com/child-custody/" data-wpel-link="internal">contentious custody disagreements</a> may need to support understanding their rights and following the necessary steps to secure a mediation waiver. Working with a child custody attorney can help North Carolina parents understand and assert their rights under the law.]]></content>
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            <title type="html"><![CDATA[5 retirement assets to protect in a divorce]]></title>
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            <id>https://www.kennedyfamilylaw.com/?p=51542</id>
            <updated>2025-12-30T03:36:18Z</updated>
            <published>2025-12-30T03:36:18Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[For many North Carolina couples, retirement accounts hold the bulk of marital wealth. From 401(k)s to pensions, you should know which accounts the state may divide. This knowledge can help protect the future you have built. How are retirement accounts treated in North Carolina? Courts in North Carolina follow an equitable distribution process, aiming for fairness rather than equal division…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.kennedyfamilylaw.com/blog/2025/12/5-retirement-assets-to-protect-in-a-divorce/"><![CDATA[<span style="font-weight: 400;">For many North Carolina couples, retirement accounts hold the bulk of marital wealth. From 401(k)s to pensions, you should know which accounts the state may divide. This knowledge can help protect the future you have built.</span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">How are retirement accounts treated in North Carolina?</span></h2>
<span style="font-weight: 400;">Courts in North Carolina follow an equitable distribution process, aiming for fairness rather than equal division of marital property. </span><a href="/divorce/complex-property-division/" data-wpel-link="internal"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Retirement accounts</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> funded during your marriage are generally marital property, while contributions made before marriage or inherited individually usually remain separate.</span>

<span style="font-weight: 400;">The court measures </span><a href="/divorce/marital-property-division/" data-wpel-link="internal"><span style="font-weight: 400;">marital property</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> as of the date of separation, so any growth or contributions after that date usually remain separate. For accounts earned partly before marriage, courts use a coverture fraction. This fraction divides the years of marriage during employment by the total years of employment. Some accounts, like 401(k)s and pensions, may need a QDRO. This allows division without extra taxes or penalties.</span>

<span style="font-weight: 400;">Thorough financial discovery is key. Collect plan documents, account statements and records. This helps ensure a fair division.</span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">Retirement assets you need to review carefully</span></h2>
<span style="font-weight: 400;">In high-asset divorces, some retirement accounts require extra attention. Reviewing these early can make negotiations smoother and protect your interests. Consider the following five retirement assets:</span>
<ul>
 	<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><b>401(k) plans:</b><span style="font-weight: 400;"> Contributions made during marriage are marital property and typically divided via a QDRO.</span></li>
 	<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><b>Pension plans:</b><span style="font-weight: 400;"> The court calculates the value of the share earned during marriage.</span></li>
 	<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><b>IRAs:</b><span style="font-weight: 400;"> The court considers both </span><a href="https://smartasset.com/retirement/how-an-ira-is-split-during-divorce#:~:text=an%20IRA%20becomes,in%20your%20state." target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" data-wpel-link="external"><span style="font-weight: 400;">traditional and Roth IRAs</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> marital property if you funded them during the marriage.</span></li>
 	<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><b>Stock options or RSUs:</b><span style="font-weight: 400;"> The portion earned while married is usually divisible in divorce.</span></li>
 	<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><b>Deferred compensation:</b><span style="font-weight: 400;"> The timing of vesting and payout can affect your share in North Carolina.</span></li>
</ul>
<span style="font-weight: 400;">Keep detailed records and review your accounts carefully. This helps you and your legal team divide assets wisely.</span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">Protect your future after a divorce</span></h2>
<span style="font-weight: 400;">Taking a proactive approach to your retirement assets is critical. Start by gathering all account statements and noting contributions made during the marriage. A financial professional and an </span><span style="font-weight: 400;">attorney</span><span style="font-weight: 400;"> may help you understand valuations, taxes and division options under North Carolina law.</span>

<span style="font-weight: 400;">With careful planning, you can protect your financial future and reduce stress during divorce. Early preparation helps you keep what you worked hard to build. It also gives you confidence as you move forward with your life.</span>]]></content>
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            <title type="html"><![CDATA[Is it okay to outspend a co-parent on your child’s gifts?]]></title>
            <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.kennedyfamilylaw.com/blog/2025/12/is-it-okay-to-outspend-a-co-parent-on-your-childs-gifts/" />
            <id>https://www.kennedyfamilylaw.com/?p=51539</id>
            <updated>2025-12-24T02:57:53Z</updated>
            <published>2025-12-24T02:57:53Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[Christmas and birthdays can be complicated for divorcing parents of minor children. There’s the question of where and how the kids will celebrate those days, and the potential complications of gift giving While many co-parents do their shopping separately, with each person buying whatever they want for the children, sometimes that does not work out well. Talking about it first…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.kennedyfamilylaw.com/blog/2025/12/is-it-okay-to-outspend-a-co-parent-on-your-childs-gifts/"><![CDATA[Christmas and birthdays can be complicated for divorcing parents of minor children. There's the question of where and how the kids will celebrate those days, and the potential complications of gift giving

While many co-parents do their shopping separately, with each person buying whatever they want for the children, sometimes that does not work out well.
<h2>Talking about it first may be wise</h2>
There is nothing inherently wrong with <a href="https://amicable.io/how-to-coparent-this-christmas" data-wpel-link="external" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">outspending a co-parent</a>, but prior discussion can reduce the chance of misunderstandings or other negative outcomes. For one, you don’t want to both buy the same thing for your child, but that can happen if they mentioned certain items on their wish list to both of you separately.

Another area where issues can arise is when gift giving becomes competitive, or when one person believes the other is treating it that way.  For example, you might have decided to buy your child a full suspension mountain bike. It’s not cheap, but experience has taught you that it is worth paying for a good one, because it will outlast and outperform a cheap one.

After Christmas, your ex mentions the bike to one of their friends, who proceeds to recount how their ex is forever trying to outdo them on the kids' presents. They reach the conclusion that this was what motivated you, and it leads to resentment and problems between the two of you going forward.

If you had discussed getting the bike first, they might have understood that this was not the case at all. They might even have suggested that the two of you split the cost or ask the grandparents to chip in. This can save you money (which might be in short supply) and help preserve co-parental harmony.

There’s a lot to think about as a <a href="https://www.kennedyfamilylaw.com/child-custody/" data-wpel-link="internal">divorcing parent</a>. Having sound legal guidance can help you make decisions that work for you and your children.]]></content>
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            <title type="html"><![CDATA[4 myths about divorce]]></title>
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            <id>https://www.kennedyfamilylaw.com/?p=51537</id>
            <updated>2025-12-18T07:28:39Z</updated>
            <published>2025-12-18T07:26:17Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[Many people enter divorce with assumptions that may not match reality. These myths can shape your expectations and complicate an already stressful process. Myth 1: Divorce is always a bitter fight You may hear that every divorce turns into a courtroom showdown. That is not typical. Many couples resolve issues through mediation or other collaborative methods and most cases settle…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.kennedyfamilylaw.com/blog/2025/12/4-myths-about-divorce/"><![CDATA[<span style="font-weight: 400;">Many people enter divorce with assumptions that may not match reality. These myths can shape your expectations and complicate an already stressful process.</span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">Myth 1: Divorce is always a bitter fight</span></h2>
<span style="font-weight: 400;">You may hear that every divorce turns into a courtroom showdown. That is not typical. Many couples resolve issues through mediation or other collaborative methods and most cases settle before trial because both spouses want stability and privacy.</span>

<span style="font-weight: 400;">Conflict often starts long before the legal process. Research shows that separation can develop from a slow erosion of intimacy rather than one major event. A recent </span><a href="https://www.forbes.com/sites/traversmark/2025/04/05/1-common-mindset-that-quietly-leads-to-divorce---by-a-psychologist/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" data-wpel-link="external"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Forbes analysis</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> describes how a “one-way mirror” mindset forms when one spouse stops sharing small thoughts to keep the peace. That quiet drift can leave the marriage looking intact but emotionally distant. When divorce grows out of this kind of disconnect, the process may involve less fighting and more focus on practical solutions.</span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">Myth 2: The mother automatically gets child custody</span></h2>
<span style="font-weight: 400;">Courts do not rely on gender when assigning parental responsibilities. Judges look at a child’s best interests which can include each parent’s involvement, stability and ability to meet daily needs. Fathers often receive joint or primary parenting time. Your schedule may reflect your actual caregiving role, not outdated assumptions.</span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">Myth 3: Adultery guarantees a better outcome</span></h2>
<span style="font-weight: 400;">Infidelity may matter emotionally yet it has limited legal weight in most states. No-fault divorce allows you to end a marriage based on irreconcilable differences. Assets, parenting responsibilities and support typically depend on financial and practical factors.</span>

<span style="font-weight: 400;">Some spouses also question whether a prenup affects fairness. An agreement may be challenged when it favors one spouse in a way that creates financial harm for the other. Courts may view a prenup as unconscionable when protections flow only one way. Each spouse should have meaningful safeguards.</span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">Myth 4: Divorce permanently harms children</span></h2>
<span style="font-weight: 400;">Children can experience stress during divorce but long-term harm is not inevitable. Predictable routines, steady communication and a calm environment often support healthy adjustment. Many children do better when conflict in the home decreases.</span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">Considering your next steps</span></h2>
<span style="font-weight: 400;">These myths can influence how you approach your divorce yet the law and the facts of your relationship may </span><a href="https://www.kennedyfamilylaw.com/divorce/" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-wpel-link="internal"><span style="font-weight: 400;">point to different outcomes</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">. If you want to understand your options, consider speaking with an attorney who handles these issues regularly.</span>]]></content>
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            <title type="html"><![CDATA[An imbalanced prenup could inspire legal challenges during divorce]]></title>
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            <id>https://www.kennedyfamilylaw.com/?p=51535</id>
            <updated>2025-12-08T15:24:42Z</updated>
            <published>2025-12-08T15:24:42Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[Prenuptial agreements can address a variety of practical yet personal concerns. Spouses may agree to treat certain assets as separate property or to divide marital resources and income in a specific manner. Prenuptial agreements can help spouses avoid conflict during divorce, provided that both spouses agree that the contract is valid. In some cases, there may be controversy related to…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.kennedyfamilylaw.com/blog/2025/12/an-imbalanced-prenup-could-inspire-legal-challenges-during-divorce/"><![CDATA[Prenuptial agreements can address a variety of practical yet personal concerns. Spouses may agree to treat certain assets as separate property or to divide marital resources and income in a specific manner.

Prenuptial agreements can help spouses avoid conflict during divorce, provided that both spouses agree that the contract is valid. In some cases, there may be controversy related to the agreement that necessitates a review by the courts. Sometimes, one spouse may assert that the contract is unconscionable and that it is not valid.

When might a marital agreement be unfair enough for the courts to set it aside?
<h2>Each spouse should have protection</h2>
Contracts outline the terms of an agreement. They generally clarify expectations for both parties or impose restrictions on their behavior. Prenuptial agreements often include terms that offer financial protection. They should offer benefits to both spouses rather than prioritizing one spouse over the other.

Particularly in scenarios where one spouse requested a prenuptial agreement due to prior success or high-value assets, the terms may focus exclusively on their protection rather than on balanced protections for both spouses. An imbalanced prenuptial agreement may meet the definition of an <a href="https://www.findlaw.com/smallbusiness/business-contracts-forms/will-your-contract-be-enforced-under-the-law.html" data-wpel-link="external" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">unconscionable contract</a>.

The courts may determine that prenuptial agreements are unconscionable when they clearly prioritize one spouse over the other. People drafting prenuptial agreements can avoid these predictable complications by having separate attorneys represent each spouse and ensuring that each person integrates protective terms into the contract.

In cases where there are questions about the fairness of a prenuptial agreement, spouses may need help evaluating the agreement and preparing for divorce proceedings. Taking the time to review a <a href="https://www.kennedyfamilylaw.com/family-law/" data-wpel-link="internal">prenuptial agreement</a> carefully with a skilled legal team can help ensure the usefulness of the agreement – and the fairness of a settlement – if spouses eventually divorce.]]></content>
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									                    <name>On Behalf of Kennedy Law Associates</name>
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            <title type="html"><![CDATA[Make creating an estate plan your New Year’s resolution]]></title>
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            <id>https://www.kennedyfamilylaw.com/?p=51534</id>
            <updated>2025-12-05T19:09:06Z</updated>
            <published>2025-12-05T19:04:22Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[Do you have an estate plan? If you don’t, then why not use the New Year as an incentive to get one in place? It’s as good a tactic as any to complete a task you probably know you need to get ticked off. Here are a couple of things to think about over the next few weeks so you…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.kennedyfamilylaw.com/blog/2025/12/make-creating-an-estate-plan-your-new-years-resolution/"><![CDATA[Do you have an estate plan? If you don’t, then why not use the New Year as an incentive to get one in place? It’s as good a tactic as any to complete a task you probably know you need to get ticked off.

Here are a couple of things to think about over the next few weeks so you are ready to begin as soon as January comes:
<h2>What do you own and what do you owe?</h2>
You probably own much more than you think, in terms of the number of items. Start a list and add to it as you remember something else. Even the things that don’t have much financial value are best placed on your list so you can cover everything when you put your plan in writing.

Debts, too, are important to note down. If you will likely be hitting your credit card this Christmas, note down what you currently owe and update it when you are ready to finalize your plan. Debts generally need to be <a href="https://www.consumerfinance.gov/ask-cfpb/does-a-persons-debt-go-away-when-they-die-en-1463/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" data-wpel-link="external">paid by your estate</a> before the remaining assets can be distributed, although some debts may die with you.

Once you have the list, you can start thinking about how you would like to divide your assets between people.
<h2>What would happen if you become seriously ill?</h2>
What would you like to happen if you suffer a serious accident that leaves you on the verge of death? Would you like medical staff to do all they can to keep you alive, even if you end up reliant on feeding tubes and paid help for the rest of your life? Or would you rather they allow you to die naturally if that is what fate has in store for you?

You can specify your choices in an advance health care directive. You can also appoint a health care power of attorney to make calls for you in conjunction with doctors if you cannot express your choices yourself.

A legal power of attorney is also essential. They can pay bills from your account and complete other necessary tasks if you can’t. If you are married, you can choose your spouse if you wish. Doing so means they can keep the household running without interruption.

Those are just some things to consider when <a href="https://www.kennedyfamilylaw.com/estate-planning/" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-wpel-link="internal">making an estate plan</a>. With legal guidance, you can learn what else you should cover and how best to go about the process.]]></content>
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									                    <name>On Behalf of Kennedy Law Associates</name>
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            <title type="html"><![CDATA[How stock options, RSUs and bonuses are handled in North Carolina divorce]]></title>
            <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.kennedyfamilylaw.com/blog/2025/12/how-stock-options-rsus-and-bonuses-are-handled-in-north-carolina-divorce/" />
            <id>https://www.kennedyfamilylaw.com/?p=51531</id>
            <updated>2025-12-03T05:02:36Z</updated>
            <published>2025-12-03T05:02:36Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[Anyone who has ever stared at a pay stub filled with acronyms knows that compensation can get confusing fast. Stock options, RSUs and bonuses often feel like alphabet soup until divorce enters the picture. Then they become more than lines on a pay stub. They turn into key assets that must be valued and divided with care under North Carolina…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.kennedyfamilylaw.com/blog/2025/12/how-stock-options-rsus-and-bonuses-are-handled-in-north-carolina-divorce/"><![CDATA[<div>Anyone who has ever stared at a pay stub filled with acronyms knows that compensation can get confusing fast. Stock options, RSUs and bonuses often feel like alphabet soup until divorce enters the picture. Then they become more than lines on a pay stub. They turn into key assets that must be valued and divided with care under North Carolina law.</div>
<h2>Understanding how North Carolina treats deferred compensation</h2>
<div>First, North Carolina is an <a href="https://www.ncleg.net/EnactedLegislation/Statutes/HTML/BySection/Chapter_50/GS_50-20.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" data-wpel-link="external">equitable distribution</a> state. This means the court divides marital assets in a fair way, which isn't always a perfect 50-50 split. Instead, the court reviews many factors when deciding what is fair.</div>
<div></div>
<div>Because of this, bonus plans and stock-based pay often become major points of focus. Many employers in banking, tech and finance use these plans to reward long-term performance. Yet the value is not always clear at the time of divorce.</div>
<h2>Determining what is marital property</h2>
<div>Next, it helps to sort out which parts of the compensation package count as marital. This depends on when you earned the benefit.</div>
<div></div>
<div>Items are often treated as marital property when they were:</div>
<ul>
 	<li>Granted during the marriage</li>
 	<li>Earned due to performance during the marriage</li>
 	<li>Paid out for work done before the separation</li>
</ul>
<div>Items may be separate property when they were:</div>
<ul>
 	<li>Granted before the marriage</li>
 	<li>Tied to future performance</li>
 	<li>Awarded as an incentive for work after the separation</li>
</ul>
<div>Each plan is different, so the exact rules in the plan documents matter.</div>
<h2>Valuing stock options and RSUs</h2>
<div>Then comes valuation. Stock options and RSUs can be tricky because their value changes over time.</div>
<div></div>
<div>Courts may use several methods to find a fair number. They may look at the current stock price, the strike price or a projected value. They may also divide the award so the receiving spouse gets a set share when the benefit vests.</div>
<div></div>
<div>Since many awards vest years after receiving them, timing matters. The division often needs language that protects both parties from future changes in value.</div>
<h2>Handling bonuses in a divorce</h2>
<div>Bonuses can also play a major role. Some bonuses reward past performance while others reward future goals. The court may divide the part earned during the marriage. The rest may stay with the spouse who earned it. Good documentation is important when bonuses come from complex compensation plans.</div>
<h2>The bottom line</h2>
<div>Overall, stock-based pay and bonuses can shape the outcome of <a title="High-Asset Divorce" href="/divorce/high-asset-divorce/" data-wpel-link="internal">a divorce</a>. Clear valuation and careful review of plan documents help ensure a fair result for both spouses.</div>]]></content>
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            <title type="html"><![CDATA[Three mistakes people make during divorce]]></title>
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            <id>https://www.kennedyfamilylaw.com/?p=51528</id>
            <updated>2025-11-29T22:01:45Z</updated>
            <published>2025-11-29T22:01:45Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[Divorce is often a time when emotions can run high and clarity feels completely out of reach. Even people with the intention of having an amicable divorce can find themselves reacting in ways they never thought they would. Stress, uncertainty and fear can make small decisions feel completely overwhelming. In these moments, it’s easy to make choices that unintentionally complicate…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.kennedyfamilylaw.com/blog/2025/11/three-mistakes-people-make-during-divorce/"><![CDATA[Divorce is often a time when emotions can run high and clarity feels completely out of reach. Even people with the intention of having an amicable divorce can find themselves reacting in ways they never thought they would.

Stress, uncertainty and fear can make small decisions feel completely overwhelming. In these moments, it’s easy to make choices that unintentionally complicate the process. Let’s look at three.
<h2>1. Using social media thoughtlessly</h2>
One common misstep is <a href="https://www.findlaw.com/legalblogs/law-and-life/5-rules-for-social-media-use-during-divorce/" data-wpel-link="external" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">using social media without thinking</a>. It’s natural to feel frustrated when going through a divorce, and it might feel right in the heat of the moment to post frustrations, speak negatively about a soon-to-be ex or share personal details online, but these actions can quickly backfire. Social media lives forever, and those posts can be used in court to question judgment, credibility or emotional stability during the process.
<h2>2. Shifting funds</h2>
Another issue arises when someone tries to move or hide money, even if they feel justified. Financial transparency is taken seriously, and shifting funds without permission can cost them goodwill with the court. Courts often view it as an attempt to be deceptive, and what feels like self-protection can instead damage credibility.
<h2>3. Rushing decisions involving court orders</h2>
Ignoring temporary orders or rushing to accept an agreement just to “get it over with” can also lead to serious consequences. Court orders are not suggestions, and failing to follow them may negatively affect custody, finances or overall standing. Likewise, agreeing too quickly may lead to an arrangement that doesn’t meet long-term needs, leaving someone feeling stuck or overwhelmed later on.

Ending a marriage is never simple, but you don’t have to navigate the difficult moments alone. If you’re unsure about your next steps, reaching out to a <a href="https://www.kennedyfamilylaw.com/blog/category/divorce/" data-wpel-link="internal">legal professional</a> who understands the process can offer clarity and steady guidance when it’s needed most.]]></content>
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									                    <name>On Behalf of Kennedy Law Associates</name>
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            <title type="html"><![CDATA[3 issues couples may address in a prenuptial agreement]]></title>
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            <id>https://www.kennedyfamilylaw.com/?p=51518</id>
            <updated>2025-11-18T23:31:44Z</updated>
            <published>2025-11-18T23:31:44Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[Prenuptial agreements are marital contracts. Engaged couples negotiate terms before committing to one another. Doing so may lead to a stronger marriage. The need to discuss expectations ahead of time can help spouses ensure that they are on the same page. If the couple eventually divorces, the prenuptial agreement they signed before getting married can facilitate an amicable, predictable divorce.…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.kennedyfamilylaw.com/blog/2025/11/3-issues-couples-may-address-in-a-prenuptial-agreement/"><![CDATA[Prenuptial agreements are marital contracts. Engaged couples negotiate terms before committing to one another. Doing so may lead to a stronger marriage. The need to discuss expectations ahead of time can help spouses ensure that they are on the same page.

If the couple eventually divorces, the prenuptial agreement they signed before getting married can facilitate an amicable, predictable divorce. Integrating the right terms into a prenuptial agreement is critical for the protection of the engaged individuals.

What concerns do people frequently address in their prenuptial agreements?
<h2>1. Protections for separate property</h2>
Some assets might theoretically belong to one spouse or the other. Resources owned before marriage or inherited from others can remain the separate property of one spouse. <a href="https://www.cnn.com/2025/06/27/business/what-is-a-prenup-marriage" data-wpel-link="external" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Prenuptial agreements</a> help clarify what assets are separate and can reduce conflicts related to those resources.
<h2>2. Terms for property division</h2>
Negotiating asset distribution matters is often the source of conflict during divorce. People may disagree about what is fair and reasonable. Spouses can establish specific terms in advance or provide general guidelines that can facilitate calmer property division proceedings.
<h2>3. Expectations for alimony or spousal support</h2>
Frequently, one spouse earns far more than the other. Even if both spouses pursue similar careers, one may eventually stay home or begin working part-time to raise the couple's children. Couples can establish clear terms for alimony in a prenuptial agreement so that the spouse making career sacrifices for the family doesn't face an uphill battle if the couple divorces.

<a href="https://www.kennedyfamilylaw.com/family-law/" data-wpel-link="internal">Drafting a thorough prenuptial agreement</a> can strengthen a marriage and simplify divorce. People preparing to negotiate a prenuptial agreement or review a document provided by a fiancé may need help ensuring that the agreement is fair and that they have adequate protection. And that’s okay.]]></content>
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            <author>
									                    <name>On Behalf of Kennedy Law Associates</name>
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            <title type="html"><![CDATA[Be sure to ask for a custody modification if you want to relocate]]></title>
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            <id>https://www.kennedyfamilylaw.com/?p=51499</id>
            <updated>2025-10-28T16:38:13Z</updated>
            <published>2025-10-28T16:38:13Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[As a divorced parent, there may come a time in the future when you want to relocate. Some of it may just depend on the age of your children. If you get divorced when your child is 16, you may simply live in the same home for the next two years, and then you do not have to worry about…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.kennedyfamilylaw.com/blog/2025/10/be-sure-to-ask-for-a-custody-modification-if-you-want-to-relocate/"><![CDATA[<span style="font-weight: 400">As a divorced parent, there may come a time in the future when you want to relocate. Some of it may just depend on the age of your children. If you get divorced when your child is 16, you may simply live in the same home for the next two years, and then you do not have to worry about child custody issues if you move.</span>

<span style="font-weight: 400">However, if you want to move while your children are still minors, then it is important to ask for a custody modification. Do not just take your child and move to another city, another state or another country. If you do, you can face legal repercussions for violating the custody order, at least if you and your ex share physical custody of the children.</span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400">How does the modification help?</span></h2>
<span style="font-weight: 400">The court understands that it may be necessary for you to move, so it can try to adjust the child custody order so that it fits. For instance, maybe you and your ex used to exchange the children every two or three days, but that will not be realistic if you live a few hours apart. The court could write another child custody order that has you exchange the children every other week instead.</span>

<span style="font-weight: 400">In some cases, the court may ask you </span><a href="https://www.findlaw.com/family/child-custody/child-custody-relocation-laws.html" data-wpel-link="external" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><span style="font-weight: 400">why you want to move</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400">. They want to see that you are not just interfering with your ex’s ability to see the children. So they may ask you for good-faith reasons, such as seeking a lower cost of living, living closer to extended family members, returning to college or taking a job offer.</span>

<span style="font-weight: 400">Every case is unique, but it is important to take the proper steps so you do not accidentally violate a court order. Be sure you know exactly what the </span><a href="https://www.kennedyfamilylaw.com/child-custody/" data-wpel-link="internal"><span style="font-weight: 400">legal requirements</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400"> are at this time.</span>]]></content>
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